Ever find yourself wondering whether she’s actually into you or just being nice? Decoding attraction feels like learning a secret code—one composed of looks, body language, and small changes in the way she speaks to you. The truth is, most women will not just bluntly say, “I like you.” What they do is drop subtle (and sometimes not-so-subtle) hints that are screaming from the rooftops. Let’s count down the 13 most obvious signs she may just be crushing on you—from the just-between-us signals to the can’t-miss ones.
13. She blushes or becomes slightly fidgety around you
When someone’s interested, nerves often kick in. If she stumbles over her words, plays with her hands, or blushes when you’re nearby, it’s usually because she’s both excited and a little anxious to make the right impression.
12. She finds reasons to touch you
A gentle touch on the arm, passing by you, or placing her hand close to yours—these small gestures can be her test of the waters. If she feels at ease maintaining that proximity, then she likely enjoys it.
11. She laughs at your jokes—even the bad ones
If she’s laughing at your cheesiest lines, it’s not politeness. Laughing is an “I enjoy being with you” kind of thing. Even your most terrible puns can sound sweet to a person who cares.
10. She mirrors what you do
Leaning in when you do, mirroring your words in similar phrases, or mimicking your body language—it’s usually an unconscious indicator that she feels connected to you. Mirroring creates a sense of connection, and most do it unconsciously when they’re attracted to somebody.
9. Her eye contact lingers
A fleeting glance is relaxed. Maintaining your gaze a fraction of a second longer—or catching her looking at you before she glances away—can be her subtle method of informing you that you’ve got her attention.
8. She leans toward you and turns to face you
When she angles her body toward you and leans in during conversation, she shows that she’s interested in you, wanting to be closer. That reduced distance says more than words ever could.
7. She plays with her hair or touches her face
Twirling her hair, running her fingers through it, or brushing her cheek are all common signs of attraction. These little movements often happen without her even realizing.
6. She has an open and welcoming posture
If she’s standing right in front of you, arms uncrossed, and feet directed in your direction, she’s telling you she’s feeling comfortable and open. Closed body language? Maybe not so much.
5. She remembers the little things you say
It could be your go-to snack, a secret you told her weeks prior, or something small about your day, and recalling it indicates that she’s listening because she genuinely cares.
4. She begins conversations and seeks shared time
When she initiates the conversation, offers up invitations, or “happens to run into” you, she’s not leaving it to fate—she’s going out of her way to be in your realm.
3. She changes her looks when you’re around
Fluffing her hair, smoothing out her clothes, or glancing at the mirror when you enter is how she’s showing you her best without saying anything.
2. She asks deeper, personal questions
If she’s curious about your past, your passions, and even your love life, it’s because she’s looking for common ground—and possibly imagining herself in the picture.
1. She plays the glance-and-smile game
Catching your eye, looking away, then sneaking another look—paired with other cues like leaning in, touching, or laughing—is one of the clearest attraction signals out there.